Three Factors to Consider Before Calling a Lawyer
Your Role in the Challenges
No matter what your issues are, consider the possibility that you may have contributed, consciously or subconsciously, to the challenges you and your partner are facing. It is critical to analyze your role in the issue before seeking a divorce.
If the Marriage Can Be Saved
It is also important to consider if you are still willing to give the marriage another shot. An unhappy marriage and an unsalvageable marriage are two very different things. If you and your partner are willing to work together, you may not want to end your marriage. But if the situation is unsalvageable, the best thing to do is call a divorce attorney.
Whether You Met Someone Else
Seeking a divorce because you met someone new can be very confusing. Having another person in the picture will make it difficult for you to sort out your feelings. Everything your partner says or does will irritate you, while the new person will appear like the savior. But comparing a new relationship to your marriage is a big mistake. If you're not sure how you feel, give yourself some space from your marriage and the new person.